A covert narcissist and bipolar. is what he is. He’said is a control freak and like to have his way. He cheated on me 2 times and had contracted an STD. He has the gift of gab and is a handsome older guy. If you don’t comply with his wishes, he will threaten to harm your livelihood. I almost lost my career behind his c**p. Just beware he has bipolar rages and fits. He trolls on the Internet and only dates black woman.