I’ve been married to Cliff for 10 years. We share 2 beautiful daughters together. Everything was great. The last year we’ve had stress on our marriage. I was sick and we didn’t know what was wrong. He got a promotion and was gone every week for work. He’d come home on the weekends and sometimes only for the night and turn around and have to leave again. He got to where he was drinking a lot. And he was too tired when he was home to do anything but lay on the couch and watch a movie. We started arguing because of his drinking and because I wanted him home more. A couple of months ago I ended up in the hospital for close to 3 weeks. The doctor I had been using had me on so many meds and some were mixing and making me sick. I got a new doctor. Tests showed I had a weak heart. So I started seeing a cardiologist as well. Both doctors plus going to hospital labs for tests about 3 times a week. Cliff changed. He was so sweet and attentive. He started staying home and was helping with the kids. He was constantly telling me he loved me and that I was his world. He said he knew we’d be ok and to let him take care of me. He was who I fell in love with and married. That lasted all of about a month. A few weeks ago he left on a Friday to go to Huntsville. He was supposed to come back that evening. He wasn’t returning my phone calls and only a couple of texts. He was gone the whole weekend. He had made a Facebook page the week he left. On Saturday I got on his page to leave a meme, just saying I loved and missed him. That’s when I saw Jennifer on his page. I sent a text asking who she was, her name seemed familiar to me somehow. He texted back “My cousin. Why?”. Even tho I’d never heard of this cousin, I let it go. He came home on Sunday. He had to be in Georgia for a class on Monday. Instead of leaving early the next morning as usual, he came in and packed his clothes. Next thing I know I hear the car leaving. I called and he wouldn’t answer. I texted and he replied that he wanted a divorce! I was floored. What was going on?? He refused to talk to me. Not answering the phone or texts. He blocked me on Facebook. I noticed Jennifer had blocked me too. The more I thought about it, it dawned on me where I’d heard of her. He once told me about the girl his brother had dated in high school and that he’d slept with. Jennifer Crane. I looked at her profile from a friends phone and she was posting that she was in a relationship with my husband!! All these sweet little “soulmates” and “I finally found the one” and “waited 20 years and now he’s mine”. No ho, he’s not! He’s only been gone 2 weeks now! He finally answered his phone. I told him to get that w**** to stop posting her c**p on Facebook. He said ok and hung up. That’s all I get after 10 years?! He brought her with him to his mom’s in Florida. He hasn’t called the kids any. And today he shut my power off. Just left me and our kids to fend for ourselves while they stay in their honeymoon phase! She unblocked me on Facebook. Guess she wanted to stalk me too. Her wall is filled with posts about loving him. And also little insults to me. Like how if I’d been a better wife, he’d still be with me. Or how I need to put on big girl panties instead of a pull-up and take care of my business. Oh and best yet was how you can be a homewrecker if the home wasn’t happy! What?? I used my last money for a consultation fee with a lawyer. The lawyer says he wants $400 more AND he can’t file anything until I get a physical address for Cliff, and even then it will be weeks before I see a judge. In the meantime, we have no money, no vehicle (he took the car), and he’s off showing HER the time of her life! All I’ve been able to do is cry and vomit. I tend to my children, then go to my room to break down. I have been a housewife for 10 years. I’m hitting dead ends trying to find a job that is ok with my lack of employment over that time. I’m lost and scared and heartbroken. He still refuses to respond to calls or texts. But no, she’s not a homewrecker… She’s destroyed my life. My kids keep asking when daddy is coming home and they try calling him. Today my 6 year old said “I hate daddy” to my 9 year old. Tore my heart in two. I’ve made every effort to NOT talk about him negatively in front of the girls but they’re so smart. I don’t know how this story will end. It’s not looking great for us. I don’t blame just her. He’s being a person I don’t know. But my guess is, she found him on Facebook ( or vice versa), he talked to her about his problems and she used that to seduce him. Karma will get her in the end. As for me and my girls, so far we are surviving, barely.

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