Joe Phal is a true blue Jeckyl and Hyde.; Joe is a charmer who preys on women. I know, I was one of them. .. Joe is a Pacific Islander, born n the small island of Yap, Micronesia and resides in the Tacoma- Seattle area. He currently works as an Aircraft maintenance mechanic. Joe loves the white girls but hates the way the American girls act and certainly didn’t mind expressing that during my long relationship with him. Joe has an assault 2 conviction against him for physically hurting me. In the time that I lived with Joe, he broke my nose, he sprained my collarbone. He strangled me and as he did, he told me that I was going to die. I almost did. He also gave me numerous bruises and cuts with swelling and would show his sorrow afterwards with coconut oil massages. He threw me out of his truck, locked me out of our house and continually screamed at me in public places. He loved to humiliate me and treat me s is dog. His family chews betel-nut and Joe liked to spit the red juice on my face and hair when angry. I lost many blouses from the red stain.; Joe can’t bend is middle left finger because he sliced the tendon with a machete while threatening to cut my throat with it. This man is a Monster!! He hides behind the Church but acts anything but Christian once you know him. If you are involved with him, please do a background check and RUN! Also contact the Island County Courthouse for transcripts of his assault trial. It’s available to anyone who ask for it and will explain the horror that I had to go through. I will also be a happy to give a blow by blow account of what happened to myself, my possessions and my family from knowing this man to anyone who cares to write to me.; During the assault trial, Joe promised to change and started going to Church but I found out a year later, that he was having an affair with a fellow Church member while letting me think that he was changing. He ended up hurting her also and called her a liar for speaking out against him when trying to tell me.; I finally got away from Joe in September 2013 when he attacked my 27 year old daughter. After that, he refused to let me get my things and trashed my furniture. He also stole personal possessions and left me in debt with payments that he said he would pay.. This man is a piece of $hit and needs to go back to Yap, Micronesia where they treat their women like subornments. (look up the documentation of abuse on Yap in an online search). I will never be quiet. I was a victim but I still have a voice. I will not let Joe live comfortably so that he can do it to someone else again.